Guest Post by Avantika Laxman
There are very few
lucky individuals who get to share houses for rent in Bangalore
with their friends. In fact there are some that find good roommates who
eventually become friends for lifetime. But majority of the times we hear about
the problems faced while sharing an apartment with a stranger or a bad
roommate.
Housing
price has gone high
Since the price rates
of the housing property has gone so high in the past few years that it is
becoming a compulsion for the young employees as well as the students to share
their expenses with a flat mate. But unfortunately there are many who are struggling
with roommate problems each and every day. Let us get into the brief of some of
the common types of such issues.
What
are the 5 common issues?
1. Variable sleeping schedule
Often it is found that
two individuals sharing the same flat or house have different sleeping
schedules. This often leads to problems and arguments among the roommates. If
one is an early riser and the other a late sleeper, there is bound to be
differences in their way of living. This is a very small issue that can be
dealt with easily if both the individuals respect each other’s life styles. But
arguments and quarrels pop up.
2. He or she makes use of your things
without your permission
It is absolutely not
advisable to use things of your roommates without his/her permission. Such an act
will definitely bring up arguments and quarrels and might get ugly as well.
Don’t you think it is always better for asking permission before you use the items
belonged to your roommate? Why to bring up problems when there is a way to
avoid it?
3. Poor personal hygiene maintenance
A roommate with poor
personal hygiene is perhaps one of the unfortunate things that can happen to
anyone. It is true that sharing the apartment becomes a challenging and a tough
job. On one hand you don’t want to offend him/her and at the same time it
becomes impossible for you stay with your roommate in an unhygienic
environment. How about gifting her basket of shower gels and also bringing up a
casual conversation regarding the stale odor of the room?
4. Your roommate is too noisy
When your roommate
hears the music loudly, watches television on loud volume levels or talking
over the phone at high pitch, it can create problems for you. You will be
disturbed while studying, reading or sleeping or even if engaged in a very
important work that needs you to focus. Don’t get into fights for it but ask
your flat mate to be less noisy in a soft tone.
5. Too frequent visitors
Often you find that
your roommate is bringing over her/his group of friends or
boyfriend/girlfriend. This can be even more challenging if they are visiting at
odd hours of the day and night. You can have a conversation with your flat mate
regarding it and say him/her clearly about your discomfort about the frequent
visitors.
By being polite, you
can sort out many issues without spoiling the situation. If nothing works, it’s
better for you to look for alternate house with understanding roommate/s.